Getting Your Ex Back by Proving You Can Change
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To get a second chance with your ex you need to understand why they left. In many cases, it will be because your ex was no longer prepared or able to tolerate certain behaviours.
If this is reflected in your parting, you need to accept it. You have to determine the particular behaviors and stay away from them, forever and in reality. Verbal promises from my ex stating "I've changed" is a superficial show and not enough to take hime back.
For starters, your ex lover will never think you're telling the truth. Let's accept it, no one changes completely in one night. Second chance given to your ex, they need to belive that the change is real and lasting.
You must give your ex concrete evidence showing that you're trying your hardest to make changes in yourself and to become a better partner in your relationship. For instance, reading books, researching for help online, taking classes or even therapy.
Committing to change is the only way you are going to make this happen. If you truly desire another opportunity with your ex you'll be more than 100 percent ready and eager to try this.
If you just put on a show but the change doesn't go deeper than the surface, you may get a second chance but it's guaranteed not to last long. When your old relationship problems crop up, and you know they will, your ex will once again decide to end the relationship.
They will feel tricked, betrayed and foolish. Again, I will be saying, "I want my ex back." Of course you already had one opportunity, and you screwed it up royally.
Other than a chance to get your ex back, and to really make a change, there is a 3rd reason: Do it for yourself.
The problems with your ex are rooted in emotions and behaviors that probably affect other parts of your life. For example, the feeling of being jealous has origins in feelings of poor self-esteem as well as insecurity, resulting, not so obviously, in trouble on your job or in your relations with friends and family.
It is you who will be happier, more attractive and healthier if you decide to deal with the negativity in emotions and behaviours for your own sake, someone who is far more likely to get a second chance with their ex, and get them back for keeps.
Your ex will appreciate your efforts all the more if he realizes that you truly want to change for yourself, not just for him.
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